Eating disorders
are a group of disorders where people use food in order to
help cope with painful situations or feelings or to relieve
stress, perhaps without even consciously realising it. Concentration
on and preoccupation with food, and control over eating or
not eating, enable them to sideline the painful and difficult
issues and events in other areas of their lives. Problems
with food can begin when it is used to cope with feelings
of boredom, anxiety, anger, loneliness, shame or sadness.
It is unlikely that an eating disorder will
result from a single cause. Much more likely is a combination
of many factors, events, feelings or pressures that lead to
the sufferer feeling unable to cope, precipitating this maladaptive
coping mechanism. Examples of such factors include low self-esteem,
problematic family relationships, trouble with friends, the
death of someone special, difficulties at work, college or
at university, lack of confidence, and sexual or emotional
abuse.
Often people with eating disorders say that
the eating disorder is the only way they feel they can stay
in control of their life, but as time goes on it becomes evident
that the eating disorder itself is controlling them. It is
common amongst those with eating disorders to experience feelings
of despair and shame. They may also identify with feelings
of failure or lack of control due to inability to overcome
these feelings about food alone.
An eating disorder is not a disease of the
appetite and it is not a slimmer's disease or diet. Waif-like
models and the current popular emphasis on dieting do nothing
to help promote nutritional normality and have no doubt triggered
many people into anorexia.
Food, however, is not the issue. It merely underlies a deeper
problem; eating or not eating becomes a way to cope with a
life that has become otherwise unmanageable.
An Eating Disorder is an illness that permeates
all aspects of the sufferer's life. It is a serious health
condition that can be both physically and emotionally destructive.
People with eating disorders need to seek professional help
as soon as possible, as early diagnosis and intervention may
enhance recovery. Eating disorders can become chronic, debilitating,
and even life-threatening conditions.
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